Anyone that has ever been on the receiving end of a break-up finds themselves reflecting on whether they could have done anything different that could have saved the relationship. In my experience as a psychic advisor, I have been able to identify a number of steps that you can take to:
1. know if a potential problem exists and, if so
2. how to restore the relationship before it dissolves in frustration and heartache. Here are some tips that you add to your “relationship repair kit”.
Long before a problem manifests in the physical world, your psychical nature will pick up changes in a relationship, even if things seem fine on a conscious or superficial level. This could take the form of feeling distracted while in the company of your lover, a sense that “something is off” or just a kind of vague difference you cannot identify. Regardless, this is like an early warning system. Pretending that what you are sensing doesn’t exist could be a recipe for disaster. You are being shown that it is time to act; heed that message!
Speech between lovers can be the single most important part of relationship maintenance. Even if things seem to be going fine, it never hurts to ask your partner if they are happy, what they are thinking, etc. Similarly, you should not be afraid to express your feelings and concerns as well. This is especially important if your “spidey senses” are tingling. The more open that the communication between the two of you is, the better the chance of identifying potential issues before they fester and become toxic to the both of you.
As important as verbal communication is between lovers, listening is even more essential.
There are two kinds of listening:
1. Physical listening
2. psychical listening
Physical listening is, of course, hearing the words that your partner is saying. While this seems straight-forward, there is more involved than just comprehending the words you hear. Listen to the tone, inflection, even the cadence of the message your lover is sending. There are important emotional and psychical clues that can reveal whether there is “trouble in paradise”. This can reduce your once happy sex life in the bedroom as well.
Psychical listening will help you to examine how the words you are hearing are resonating within your being. You can practice the technique in this fashion: When you are alone play some music and focus on the internal messages that you receive. These could come in the form of emotions, memories, even mental images. It will be a challenge at first to listen beyond the melodies however, once you become attuned to the psychical aspect of “hearing” a whole new vista of sensory and extra-sensory information will be opened to you.
When you are comfortable with listening psychically, apply the same method to a random set of communications, such as radio, television or internet-based media. Again, what you are building is the skill to listen beyond the physical to pick up internal information and, more importantly, understanding the meanings and impact of those sounds to you on a spiritual level.
The first time that you listen to your lover psychically, and this may be in the infatuation stage, you may find yourself shocked at the flood of impressions you receive. The key is to not let yourself become overwhelmed but, rather, absorb the emotional and mental information that he is sending and store it for your review when you have some time alone. You may discover that there are issues that are troubling him (whether about you, about him, or some external situation which he carries into your relationship) or you could be pleased to know just how much being a couple means to him.
Regardless of what he transmits, this information can certainly go a long way to helping you decipher potential rough patches in your road of love so that things can be brought out into the open and, hopefully, resolved. This will also lead to a much happier relationship and fulfilling sex life.
PsychicCosmos © 2009
Anyone that has ever been on the receiving end of a break-up finds themselves reflecting on whether they could have done anything different that could have saved the relationship. In my experience as a psychic advisor, I have been able to identify a number of steps that you can take to:
1. know if a potential problem exists and, if so
2. how to restore the relationship before it dissolves in frustration and heartache. Here are some tips that you add to your “relationship repair kit”.
Long before a problem manifests in the physical world, your psychical nature will pick up changes in a relationship, even if things seem fine on a conscious or superficial level. This could take the form of feeling distracted while in the company of your lover, a sense that “something is off” or just a kind of vague difference you cannot identify. Regardless, this is like an early warning system. Pretending that what you are sensing doesn’t exist could be a recipe for disaster. You are being shown that it is time to act; heed that message!
Speech between lovers can be the single most important part of relationship maintenance. Even if things seem to be going fine, it never hurts to ask your partner if they are happy, what they are thinking, etc. Similarly, you should not be afraid to express your feelings and concerns as well. This is especially important if your “spidey senses” are tingling. The more open that the communication between the two of you is, the better the chance of identifying potential issues before they fester and become toxic to the both of you.
As important as verbal communication is between lovers, listening is even more essential.
There are two kinds of listening:
1. Physical listening
2. psychical listening
Physical listening is, of course, hearing the words that your partner is saying. While this seems straight-forward, there is more involved than just comprehending the words you hear. Listen to the tone, inflection, even the cadence of the message your lover is sending. There are important emotional and psychical clues that can reveal whether there is “trouble in paradise”. This can reduce your once happy sex life in the bedroom as well.
Psychical listening will help you to examine how the words you are hearing are resonating within your being. You can practice the technique in this fashion: When you are alone play some music and focus on the internal messages that you receive. These could come in the form of emotions, memories, even mental images. It will be a challenge at first to listen beyond the melodies however, once you become attuned to the psychical aspect of “hearing” a whole new vista of sensory and extra-sensory information will be opened to you.
When you are comfortable with listening psychically, apply the same method to a random set of communications, such as radio, television or internet-based media. Again, what you are building is the skill to listen beyond the physical to pick up internal information and, more importantly, understanding the meanings and impact of those sounds to you on a spiritual level.
The first time that you listen to your lover psychically, and this may be in the infatuation stage, you may find yourself shocked at the flood of impressions you receive. The key is to not let yourself become overwhelmed but, rather, absorb the emotional and mental information that he is sending and store it for your review when you have some time alone. You may discover that there are issues that are troubling him (whether about you, about him, or some external situation which he carries into your relationship) or you could be pleased to know just how much being a couple means to him.
Regardless of what he transmits, this information can certainly go a long way to helping you decipher potential rough patches in your road of love so that things can be brought out into the open and, hopefully, resolved. This will also lead to a much happier relationship and fulfilling sex life.
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