Posts Tagged ‘Soul Mates’

Nov

18

Most of us have looked for true love at one time or another. Some find it, some never do. Most of us are destined to meet someone eventually that brings us contentment and true love. If you have been searching and not finding your perfect man, here are some tips to help you hook up.


1. Cut down on that long drive to/from work. You might have to move, but, this will free up some time for finding the perfect love relationship which will establish your future.


2. Join a gym, or workout at home; women who are in shape attract men. It tells them you care about how you present yourself. There are lots of single guys at the gym.


3. Get involved in any activity that you are passionate about. This increases your chances of finding your ideal mate; you’ll have something in common.


4. Take a vacation with your girl friends; you know that men will be hanging out; they are looking too, so, book that singles cruise or group hike.


5. Take goal oriented vacations or short, weekend trips; like a jazz theme, guest ranch, or combine it with a workshop.


6. Volunteer at a local charity organization. You will find like-minded prospects.


Write down your goals and stick to them. Plan at least once per week doing some activity that supports your goal in love and relationships. Getting together with girlfriends regularly to attend a function that stimulates your interest will put you in a relationship-rich environment. If you like what you are doing, chances are, your future soul mate does, too.


Just dreaming about your future love relationship will not make it happen. Sitting home with no plans is a sure fire way to make sure your dream remains just a dream. The Fed-Ex or mail man doesn’t know that you are looking. Putting yourself out there, puts you in touch with people.


Hope is not going to get you anywhere, but, taking an action will. This will put you in a position of meeting more people. Take your neighbor or co-worker up on any invitation to that summer BBQ. Everyone loves a chance to enjoy some great food and social good times.


Organize a block party or a beach picnic and tell your friends to bring someone you don’t know. Let your friends know you are looking. It is amazing what they can do for you. You never know when their cousin or brother’s friend may come to town for a visit.


If you have a dog, get out there walk it and often. Dogs are great ice-breakers for initial conversations. Taking classes where you and your dog participate is a great way to meet a future partner. If you are the shy type, let your dog do the barking!


Just putting a little effort out there, along with networking among friends, neighbors and co-workers, will keep it fresh in their minds that you are seriously looking. This greatly enhances your chances of meeting your soul mate.


He’s out there! Set your sites on a future soul mate and before you know it, you will end up with the love of your life! Believe in your dreams; they really can come true!


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Posted in Love and Relationships, Soul Mates
Jan

22

So, what is up with men that seem hot one minute then cold the next?  When you first began dating you just felt such a connection and was sure he did, too!  Then suddenly, he’s not calling as much.  What happened?


This can be very confusing and emotionally upsetting to women when this occurs.  Everything seemed like you had found your soul mate and then he stopped calling as much.  In fact he didn’t call at all for a while.  What do you do next?


This is actually the first sign of trouble on the horizon for you.  You wonder if you really knew him at all.  You seemed to have so much in common and then it all stopped.  You think it must be all your fault.


The first thing women do is think that they did something wrong.  Was it something they said?  Was it something they did or did not do?  This is when women need to really do a re-assessment and get a hard dose of reality.


So, what should be done?  Nothing – absolutely, nothing should be the reaction.  But that is not what usually happens.  Instead, the woman starts doing all of the initiating to keep the ‘relationship’ alive.  They text, call and email hoping for a reasonable explanation of what went wrong.


Women are not aware of how to keep a man’s attention.  You need to play hard to get and keep it that way until you catch his interest again.  Women who play too easy to get and wait by the phone are easy targets for men.  They are well aware of this.  Catching their attention is very easy to do; however, it may not be emotionally easy for you to do at first.


What should happen here is to take a giant step back and stop initiating anything at all.  Here are some tips that can be explored to get his attention back on you.


  • When he stops calling, texting or emailing, do not keep contacting him


  • Men hate to be ignored – so, ignore him


  • Next time he contacts you, wait two or three days before responding


  • Never answer any type of contact on the weekends


  • Do not contact him or answer your phone in the evenings



The reason for these tips is that you are doing all of the wondering about lack of interest in you.  You need to take charge by ignoring him and not responding right away to any type of contact.  This switches the power and puts you in the driver’s seat.  He will start to wonder what YOU are doing rather than the other way around.


When he goes cold, get colder and keep it that way for a while.  Make him earn the right to be in your life.  Women who play very hard to get have the best chance of keeping the relationship on the right track because men love the ‘hunt’.  They are hard-wired to work hard for things they really want.


Giving men everything right away is a sure-fire way of ensuring things will get cold.  Make him work harder to be in your life.  If he doesn’t, then he is not for you.  Let him go and fast after giving it your best shot.  Then get out there and try again.  Always remember:  if you spill a gallon of milk, wipe it up and go get another one.


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Posted in Love and Relationships, Soul Mates