Archive for May, 2010
We are here to help you and do the best job possible when it comes to answering your questions. It is interesting that some clients will call psychic after psychic trying to get one or two to agree with their fantasy. If you are thinking about getting online psychic readings to validate the return of your old boyfriend who has been out of your life for over 6 months to a year, PLEASE, take a few minutes before those lovely fingers do the walking to find that gifted psychic and make sure you are REALLY wanting the answers you REALLY don’t know.
It is interesting that clients will call psychic after psychic trying to find one who will give them the information that fits within their dream of happy bliss with Mr.or Ms. Right. Only to be told, they have found new love and moved on from you. This is usually where the attack on the psychic begins.
Depending upon the desperation of the caller, it may be “Oh no! He’s not with anyone now, he would never do that! He still loves me, but, has not made contact in 6 mos to a year. Slam goes the phone, move on to the next quest of finding the “good psychic”. This time, the caller may tell the psychic she has talked with many psychics and they have told her he is coming back to her and loves her. Of course, you are a fake and a liar for not agreeing with them.
It appears that some people who call for hope, do not associate the psychic they are speaking with as a real person who is gifted and is there to help them find the truth they asked for. It is remarkable how some will take their anger out on the psychic for not sharing her vision of a happy reunion with the old boyfriend.
The climate for giving and acceptance of the reading has changed with sites allowing clients to rate a psychic based on a 1 minute call. This is no reading, only an opportunity to punish the psychic with their new found power.
Blame the psychic is a sport on today’s highway of truth in the psychic world. Definitely a new set of rules need to be in place for yourself before you look for truth, maybe within one’s self.
Shooting the psychic messenger is not your answer.
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Maggie
Psychic readings can be very helpful if you: a) pick a tested and talented reader and b) understand what a psychic reading can and cannot do. Picking a talented reader is not that difficult if you go to a site that lets you know that their readers are tested and have experience in their area of expertise. Call someone you feel drawn to and hang up quickly of they are asking too many questions or if they are judgmental, rude or abrasive in any way.
An authentic psychic will be compassionate, quick to pick up on the answer to your question(s) and not interested in judging you. A “real” psychic may ask a clarifying questions such as, “Are you with anyone now?” but you should be asking the questions, not the reader!
A psychic reading is a revelation of probabilities and possibilities and in no way is it a declarative statement written in cement about the future. A reading should leave you uplifted and armed with information that will help you to deal with upcoming events. If there is bad news in a reading, there is a balance of good news as well.
A psychic reading is an illumination for you to use as you move forward in all of the areas of your life that you have asked your clairvoyant or Tarot Card reader or medium about. Choose a well-qualified reader, be specific about your question(s) and enjoy what your seer is about to reveal to you!
Jullie H
He takes you home and leaves – punctuating his departure with a brief and ever so platonic hug.
Huh? He would have killed himself if he had made love with you? You should have stopped him? The perfect Ms. Minnesota got anxious because she couldn’t reach him? Ok, so at what point, you wonder, did you plummet down the rabbit hole and join the land of disappearing smiles and playing cards that dance?
The next few days you do not know what to think or feel. You wander from rage to self-loathing to feeling sorry for him to feeling sorry for yourself and you are lost in a whirlwind of emotion. Worse, out loud to him when he calls, which he continues to do daily, you say, “No, really, I understand. This is not easy stuff. I am glad you and Ms. Minnesota worked it all out. If I see you again, I will keep the boundaries well in place. I am sorry, I should never have allowed any physical contact between us. I am glad we can be friends.”
You are mortified. Did you really say that to him? Have you no self-respect at all? Why are you completely letting him off the hook?
You book an appointment with a therapist. You are actually going to spend $180.00 per hour to figure out what in the name of all that is Holy is wrong with you.
You go to your session and are so throughly disappointed that you wish you had spent the money on hot fudge sundaes and getting your nails and hair done. Your therapist said you are co-dependent on a man who is immature, manipulative and very unwilling to take responsibility for his own actions. You must sever all ties and realize that you are trying to be with someone who never loved you because he only knows how to love himself.
Thanks. Ok. On the to next therapist who tells you that you need to bolster your self-esteem and think of yourself in a healthier more loving way.
Thanks. Ok. The third therapist tells you to meditate on how wonderful you are and that you deserve someone who is capable of love.
Thanks. Ok. You call a psychic who tells you to cut the silver cord that connects you with the Golden Scissors of your Karmic attachment and you will be free forever of this relationship that never was and never will be anything but a fantasy. Thanks. Ok. Thank goodness your hard to find favorite psychics keep you on track and in reality. They tell you to trust your instincts and to understand who you are in the relationship.
Meanwhile, he calls you daily, usually for hours and you are so in love with him that you feel as though you have finally gone around that proverbial bend without putting your brakes on at all. Jeepers! Try as you will, you think about him, pray for him to lose Ms. Minnesota and gain you! You know that there have been difficult and painful times but, overall, you had never known this kind of passion, intensity or pure joy. What in the world were you thinking when you told him to leave? That was when you were truly crazy…or…are you crazy now? Who knows? Who cares? You just want him back.
You take his calls and are a good listener. You are always upbeat and positive. You are happy because he is happy. You are truly trying to embrace your loss and reconcile it with his joy. This is an arduous journey but you sense that you will be happy that you undertook it. Your tears have become a private thing between you and your pillow case because he, of course, has told you that if his calls make you cry he will stop calling.
For months you wander through the same cycles. He calls, you are delighted and devastated simultaneously. You are so happy to hear his voice and feel the love he still carries for you. However, he is now living with Ms. Minnesota with whom, by his own admission to you, he has very little in common. He likes to hike in the mountains and she parks as close to the mall entrance as she can. He likes to go beach combing and the only thing she combs is her hair. She eats large quantities of meat and he is a card carrying salad addict! Still, he stays with her and, in your heart, you know he will marry her.
You ask yourself continuously, “What am I doing? Do I really believe he will come back to me?” For a long time, the answer to that is, “Yes.”, even though you can see him marrying her as clearly as you can see the those little hairs on the side of you knees that you always miss when you are shaving. None-the-less, you take his calls and steer the winding road of your complex relationship with him as artfully as any professional driver. (How else does anyone think you learned the art of “faking it until you make it”?)
Julie H Psychic Reader
1.) Go to class
2.) Listen to the teacher/professor
3.) Take good notes
4.) Read the assigned book
5.) Do your homework
6.) Study thoroughly for your test
7.) Pass the test!
However, often I find that people calling in for a reading have not followed some of the basic logical steps and are anticipating you to give them a “yes, you will pass your test with flying colors” answer when in fact they have fallen short on the basic steps to success.
Huh?
This defies all common logic. A psychic reading is NOT going to give you your desired outcome without following basic steps towards success! Do your work! Otherwise, you will fail!
Or another example:
A middle aged single person is calling in, anxiously asking when they are going to meet their next boyfriend, or girlfriend. Upon starting the reading and looking at their cards, it becomes pretty evident that this person is so focused on pursuing their career, traveling, money, status or even wrapped up in the care of their young children, that they are NOT making time to actively pursue social goals like dating. The person expects you to instantly conjure up pictures of the next person that they will date, but yet you don’t see them with anyone new, because they are not even focused on that. They are just wishing for an outcome, without putting energy into it.
If you want to find a relationship, you’ve got to invest some time in becoming social. Period!!!
Another example:
Someone calls in and asks the question, “Will I lose weight this coming year and get in better shape?”
After talking with them further, you find that they are working a sedentary job, that they are addicted to the TV or computer (where they sit for over 12 hours a day) and they are not scheduling any additional time to hit the gym, walk, exercise, or burn off excess calories. They are not planning to alter their diet habits in ANY way. They are just hoping that you will give them a “thumbs up” on weight loss, when in fact, they have NO PLAN for making that actually happen.
Hey, when did we as a society, get to a point where we stopped realizing that it takes some sort of effort in order to achieve our desired outcome?
If you want a desired outcome, YOU must do the work. The psychic can’t magically make this happen for you!
Make sure to put your Time, Energy, AND Focus into the thing that you want to manifest in your life. Otherwise, it is all just wishful thinking!
This must be the most common question received in online psychic readings. How often have I heard someone so desperate to hear the phone ring and hear from someone that they care about?
Many people call into a psychic line expecting to have this answered in a method that will determine the exact time of the call rather than realizing that it is more of an energetic thing.
Whether you are right next door, or around the globe, a partner can energetically “read you”. If you are waiting by the phone with baited breath hoping and pleading for this person to call you, FORGET IT!!! They most certainly aren’t going to feel the inspiration to pick up the phone.
If instead, you start doing the things that stimulate you, inspire you, energize you, about 85% of the time this person that you are all wrapped up in, will feel that energetic shift and will want to dial you up.
Have you ever played with two magnets? Have you ever noticed that as one magnet tries to chase the other magnet the magnet that is being chased, continues to run away and resist drawing near? On the other hand, if you do your best to remain focused on your own energies and your own interests, magically, you will find that people want to draw near. They will want to be in your presence and around your energy field.
Whether you realize it or not, people have an ability to “tap into your energy field”. If you are projecting this neediness to have them call, they will avoid you like the plague. Turn your attention to something else, then they are magically drawn back in and then feel the compulsion to call you!
The key here is to completely DROP the desire for the outcome. Let it go COMPLETELY!
If you find yourself asking a psychic “when will so and so call me?”, then even in asking that question, you are STILL “Hooked”.
CUT THAT OUT!!!
When you arrive at a point where you could literally care less if that person EVER picks up the phone and gives you a call, then most likely, that person will feel the disconnect in your energy and wonder what the heck is up. They will then be much more likely to want to call you!
Be proactive and throw yourself into the things that stimulate and excite you. Your energy shift will create a whole new wave of excitement. In no time at all, your phone will be ringing off the hook! If the person that you are asking about is not calling you back, then be open to allowing the Universe to bring you the best possible person into your life!
Is your relationship purely sexual or do you have a heart felt connection?
What type of attraction are you having within a relationship?
Is this just a relationship based on sweaty, salty, hot, and sizzling sex? Or, is there actually some sort of heart felt connection going on along with the sexual connection?
Hot and sizzling chemistry is sometimes only a lure to entice two people into a relationship where they are both needing to grow, learn some new things, and to come together for certain events in your life that you could perform better as a team than alone.
Where are you in this relationship? Are you at a point where you both can’t wait to rip each other’s clothes off and hit the sheets? Or, has the fizzle worn off? Is the magic gone?
This can sometimes be much more than just that the human hormones have leveled off. Perhaps the soul connection is no longer there.
How can you determine what type of relationship you are in, and exactly where you are at on the barometer of HOTNESS?
One of the best ways, is to look at the Tarot cards.
The cards are very good at giving specific information about a relationships potential. There are a number of cards that strongly indicate what type of “attraction” is going on between two people.
If a number of cup cards emerge in psychic tarot readings, you can gather that the relationship is running a course of coming from the heart; a true soul connection. Yes, it may be a relationship that totally knocks your socks off in the bedroom, but it is NOT just purely sexual. There is a depth of emotion and love that creates a much more solid basis, than only a purely physical, sexual relationship.
If a number of rod/stave/wand Tarot cards show up, then you can gather that the relationship is based more on a sexual and physical dynamic. This is not to say that the relationship can’t grow into more of a heart felt relationship in the future, but it is definitely grounded in the physical.
If there are sexual malfunctions going on within a relationship or a focus on financial aspects rather than love, sex, etc., then this will also be indicated in a good tarot reading on relationships.
A Tarot card that pulls in both of the people’s energy and analyzing what is actually showing up in a card reading, will give you a lot of necessary information in what is actually going on between you.
What is your attraction all about? What is going on on the barometer of Hotness? If you dare and really care, ask the Tarot cards, and find out!
What type of attraction are you having within a relationship? Is this your true soul mate?
Is this just a relationship based on sweaty, salty, hot, and sizzling sex? Or, is there actually some sort of heart felt connection going on along with the sexual connection?
Hot and sizzling chemistry is sometimes only a lure to entice two people into a relationship where they are both needing to grow, learn some new things, and to come together for certain events in your life that you could perform better as a team than alone.
Where are you in this relationship? Are you at a point where you both can’t wait to rip each other’s clothes off and hit the sheets? Or, has the fizzle worn off? Is the magic gone?
This can sometimes be much more than just that the human hormones have leveled off. Perhaps the soul cnnection is no longer there.
How can you determine what type of relationship you are in nd exactly where you are at on the barometer of HOTNESS?
One of the best ways, is to look at the Tarot cards. The cards are very good at giving specific information about relationship potential.
There are a number of cards that strongly indicate what type of attraction is going on between two people.
If a number of cup cards emerge in a psychic tarot reading, you can gather that the relationship is running a course of coming from the heart; a true soul connection. Yes, it may be a relationship that totally knocks your socks off in the bedroom, but it is NOT just purely sexual. There is a depth of emotion and love that creates a much more solid basis, than only a purely physical, sexual relationship.
If a number of rod/stave/wand cards show up, then you can gather that the relationship is based more on a sexual and physical dynamic. This is not to say that the relationship can’t grow into more of a heart felt relationship in the future, but it is definitely grounded in the physical.
If there are sexual malfunctions going on within a relationship or a focus on financial aspects, rather than love, sex, etc., then this will also be indicated in a good tarot reading on relationships.
A Tarot Card that pulls in both of the people’s energy… and analyzing what is actually showing up in a card reading, will give you a lot of necessary information in what is actually going on between you.
What is your atraction all about? What is going on on the barometer of ‘Hotness’? If you dare and really care, ask the Tarot cards and find out!
He calls. You talk. You do not reunite. He calls again. He tells you that he is flying to Minnesota to meet a woman he met on the dating site, “Love Doesn’t Sting.com”. You wish him all joy and tell him that you hope he finds what he is looking for. Inside you say, “Are you kidding me? Really? Well, then so be it. He’ll find out that the connection he has with anyone else is nothing like what we shared!”
He calls after his Minnesota weekend. He is in love. He says she is the sweetest thing ever. He says she is beautiful, beloved and he is so very grateful to have met her. You tell him that you are happy for him but that you have to go because your pot of lasagna is about to boil over. You are not telling the truth and he knows it. You don’t care.
“Sweetest thing” ever? “Beautiful”? He is “grateful” to have met her?
You feel like the years or months of your investment in him were for naught and that you must have been completely deluded to think that he had loved you. Although he told you that he loved you and came after you many times post-break up, he must have just needed you, not loved you. You feel as though you were nothing to him or he couldn’t have fallen in love with someone else less than a month after you broke up with him. You are hurt, angry and feel betrayed.
You also know that you have no right to say one word to him about your feelings. You broke up with him this time. He is (was) single and is free to do whatever he wants to. You do wish him joy…you just didn’t want him to find it so soon and you wanted him to discover or re-discover it with you. You love him and want him back and cannot believe that his life has changed so much in such a short period of time. He’s falling in love and traveling while you are mopping up your life’s blood off of your floors every day! He is making love and plans with another woman while you are looking up the word “Self-esteem” in the dictionary daily to remind yourself what it is!
Then he calls again and has a delicious conversation with you about everything and nothing. He is glad that you can be friends and he encourages you to “get out there”. You lie and assure him that you are getting “out there” without telling him that “out there” means the mail box!
In a week, he tells you that he wants to come to visit you. Your hope-o-meter soars and you are planning what you are going to wear before you have gotten off of the phone with him.
The day arrives and, sure enough, there he is pulling into the driveway with a ridiculous looking hat on his head. You have never seen this hat before and you already know that this is something Ms. Minnesota has given him. Your stomach heaves but you smile and receive his warm and loving hug. You have lunch and talk about work and nothing important. (He hasn’t removed his hat.) You go for a walk and he holds your hand and tells you that you are beautiful. (He’s still wearing that hat.) He kisses your cheek a lot. He tells you that you will always mean the world to him. (He’s got that hat on, remember.)
He says that he is so very happy that you two can be friends and that he wants to always be in your life no matter what paths you end up walking. (The hat has not been removed.)
You finally cannot stand it and you open your mouth and ask him about the hat. He blushes and stammers slightly and says that Ms. Minnesota gave it to him and that he will never take it off. You mumble something about how sweet that is and wonder if he can tell that you are consciously controlling your gag reflex.
You have dinner and he goes to his motel after making plans to take you out for breakfast before he leaves in the morning. He kisses you on the mouth when he says goodbye and suddenly you are an item again. That powerful chemistry takes over and in the tussle of desire that hat finally falls to the floor. Even in the midst of your passionate embraces and kisses you control and urge to stomp on that dang hat. You do not make love but you get close to that act. He breathlessly informs you that he promised Ms. Minnesota that he would never leave her or cheat on her, picks his hat up of of the floor and he whisks himself out of the door without further ado.
You do not sleep. You find yourself navigating the emotional white waters of rage, love, desire and confusion. In that turbulence is the green water of jealously regarding Ms. Minnesota. You despise yourself. You rationalize your behavior and you try not to think about the debt to the karma bank you may be creating.
The next morning arrives, he picks you up for breakfast and he looks as though he has experienced some horrific personal tragedy. Sipping on coffee, he tells you that Ms. Minnesota had been trying to reach him and couldn’t because he had turned his cell phone off while he was with you. She is prone to anxiety and she was extremely upset when she couldn’t reach him.
He ices that bitter cake by saying that if he had made love with you the previous night he would have had to kill himself because he would have broken a promise to his love. He tells you that you should have stopped him and never allowed the physical contact to happen.
The rest of breakfast is a blur. You know you ordered pancakes but you are sure you ate wet cardboard.
He takes you home and leaves – punctuating his departure with a a brief and ever so platonic hug.
Jullie H. Psychic Readings
Mercury Retrograde was at it’s official end and peak today as Iceland’s Eyjafjallajokul volcano spewed more clouds of ash, smoke and fire. In astrology, the beginning and end of these types of retrogrades involving Mercury can have the most profound effects. It affected thousands more people at airports in Morroco, Spain and as far as Turkey and North Africa. During this period, travel and communications are heavily involved. I suspect we will be witness to more of this for quite a while, especially in June of this year.
Northern Africa was also involved and hopefully, things will smooth out later this week as Mercury starts it trek forward and travel can resume for those stranded as a result of the continued eruptions. Airports all through Spain are closed until the smoke and ash clear. This has been a particularly hard Retrograde in Taurus, a fixed earth sign.
It is no accident that that there is so much volcanic activity during this time. If anyone has ever had the experience of witnessing a mad Taurus in a fit of rage, just think of the bull in the China shop. This is how it is affecting the earth. Retrogrades can come back with a vengence roughly a month later and that is why I feel strongly that this is not the end of the turmoil in Iceland.
This has been a particularly difficult time for even tempered Taurus who likes it slow. The problem with Iceland’s woes, is that Taurus can also be slow to cool off once they get angry, especially when a Mercury Retrograde hits this sign. The good thing is that there is a new Moon in Taurus on May 13th which will brighten things up for good ole Taurus and other’s who have been slowed down by this Retrograde – especially people born under the signs of Capricorn and Cancer.
There could easily be some positive surprises for Taurus including a bright pick-up in their social lives, which have been sluggish of late. In fact, Taurians should have some movement forward in anything they started prior to this Retrograde up until around June 7th when Mars moves into another sign.
In January the eclipses were directly affecting both Capricorn and Cancer. Pluto in Capricorn will force change whether you like it or not. You may have needed a steady pace but things happened around you that interupted some badly needed relaxation.
The rest of the month of may should go much better and start to smooth out. You may have suddenly decided to travel only to have things delayed during the Retrograde. The fun is about to begin and if single, your love life will get some badly needed attention.
For people born under the sign of Cancer, you may get some good news as Uranus pops into the career section of your chart. Toward the end of May your career should shoot forward and if you have been waiting to hear about a job you have applied for this will be the time frame that will favor you.
Don’t be surprised if you get more opportunities later this year than you could have hoped to dream of. If you’ve have been wondering if you will ever get that promotion or job offer, this will be your chance to move toward that dream job you’ve been thinking about for so long. Jupiter, your planet of luck will be in your sign bringing you unexpected luck this year, so take advantage of it.
When all is said and done, yes, this has been a very tough Retrograde that has affected people in more ways than one. That, coupled with the volcano eruptions in Iceland has put us all on notice that when things heat up, it can be in a big way affecting not only our personal lives but where ever nature decides shake the earth and all of us that live here.
More information can be found by research on horoscopes and astrology.
PsychicCosmos © 2009
The call comes in and the caller wants a general reading. They want to know about their love life, finances and career and have three minutes for psychic readings. Where on earth do people think we, psychics, can do a general reading in three minutes? It’s impossible! I’m often dumbfounded when I get these calls. I don’t understand where people got the idea that psychics can do readings in less time than it takes you to go to McDonald’s drive through. It’s frustrating at best and an insult to a psychic.
I’m not sure where people get the idea that a life time reading can be done in such a short time. They are truly mis-informed about what it takes for a psychic to receive the information and deliver it in that amount of time. Typically, clients should be able to get a reading in 10 minutes. However, there are circumstances where more time should be alloted to get good, accurate psychic readings. An example of that would be a general reading or a complicated situation.
If a general reading is desired, a minimum of 30 minutes should give clients a good solid reading with details. Many times, a general reading can take longer, again, depending on the circumstances.
There are sites out there that offer free or nearly free psychic readings in 3 minutes or less. When sites make these offers and are in the business of psychic readings, I blame them most because if they offer them, it leads the public to believe that a reading can be done in three minutes. Nothing could be further from the truth.
A general reading like the one mentioned above can take 20 minutes and well beyond. Good psychics get really upset when this happens because it takes time to get the information, interpret it and then deliver it to the caller. It is totally ridiculous to expect a psychic to do this type of reading.
So, if these sites are the ones training people to get a reading in a very short time period, are they the ones to blame for the public’s attitude. I think it’s a combination of sites mis-informing people, trying to lure them in with free 3 minutes readings and the notion that psychics are like pop machines: drop in the quarter and out comes your soda.
Most people who are serious about their situation will spend the time to get all of the information that is available in their lives. I look at it this way; if your concerns are really important to you, then allow enough time for an advisor to cover all of the information that comes through. A 3 minutes wonder call tells the advisor that you are not really serious about knowing more about what is going on, what will go on and what the outcome will be.
A good tarot reader who is also clairvoyant doesn’t have adequate time to shuffle the cards, lay them out, interpret them and then give you decent information in 3 minutes. It is not realistic to think that they can. If you have ever laid out the tarot cards or tried to do a 3 minute wonder reading, you would know what I am saying.
We are not K-Mart readers here. All of the advisors on this site are hand chosen because of their ability. We were all tested in our area of expertise. There just aren’t any K-Mart readers here. If you want genuine psychic readings or psychic tarot readings then plan ahead and purchase enough time to get accurate information. Remember – you get what you pay for.